Choosing each other

I read an article about dating in which the author proposed that many people remain single because they don't put enough effort into meeting potential partners. She suggested that a person spend at least fifteen hours a week doing dating related things - seeking dates, going out on dates. Hmmm...I think over the summer I met that weekly quota handily. :)

Who we are to choose our loves when we do meet them? It takes two people to be ready for a relationship to start. The most we can do is be available, to present ourselves.