Overthinking

I haven't quite understood what's going on with Date #9. She just seems way more open then you'd want to be with someone you've just met. I've been trying the route of just being friends but after a few dates I decide this isn't working for me. She lets me know later that she was holding back on the physical side of things because she didn’t really know what was going on in my 'widow head'. Hmm, suppose she could have asked - I'm not really hiding anything. I guess I felt like she was probably thinking way too much for the two of us!