SNUC_in_NY

My late wife's journey with SinoNasal Undifferentiated Carcinoma (SNUC), and my subsequent journey as a grieving widower finding my way back to life.

Monday, February 12, 2007

Significant events

The Hospice folks are always evaluating what's going on with Robin. This morning we experienced what they considered a significant event.

Kim, Dad and I were chatting with Robin when she decided to take a minute to say goodbye to each one of us. She took time to address each one of us individually and to say goodbye and get a goodbye back. Although Robin finished by saying "I'll see you all this afternoon". The hospice folks said the "goodbye" was the most significant portion of the interaction.

The hospice folks are usually pretty evasive about timeframes, but two different folks who visited today said they thought she was moving down the path and we're down to days or weeks. I guess the most obvious signs (even to us layman) are that she's not eating and she's drinking very little. One of the hospice folks had mentioned that a human only survives about seven days without water and about four weeks without food.

What we've read about dying, and what the hospice folks have reinforced is that Robin's lack of interest in food and water is simply part of the dying process.

3 Comments:

At 1:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Greg, Kim, and Chris,

You are truly amazing people. Robin cannot eat or drink, yet you continue to find ways to nourish her soul, and she is able to accept that nourishment. It is no wonder that even in the face of dying her imagination leads her to a place where there are blankets and smiley faces. Robin is now, and forever will be in good hands.

-Mike

 
At 7:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This journey with all of you has been such a testimony. So often we are afraid of death but you and Robin continue to demonstrate that this process needs to be talked about and shared with others. It is evident that she has a happy spirit that continues to shine through.

Gail

 
At 3:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Greg,
As time draws near her comfort in you will become the infinite comfort in resting and being in the Lord's loving embrace. There is a song that comes to mind and the lyrics go like this...

The more I seek You
The more I find You
The more I find You
The more I love You

I wanna sit at Your feet,
Drink from the cup in Your hand,
Lay back against You and breathe,
Feel Your heartbeat.

This love is so deep,
it's more than I can stand.
I melt in Your peace
It's overwhelming.

His love is for you too Greg..

God Bless you and Robin..

Mike B.

 

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